The coparent blog

Practical guidance for families navigating co-parenting together.

Seasonal Planning

The Back-to-School Coparenting Checklist: Getting Both Homes on the Same Page

The first weeks of school set the rhythm for the whole year. Here’s a back-to-school coparenting checklist that gets both homes on the same page — contact records, after-school logistics, supplies, and the first-day plan.

September 1, 2026·7 min read
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Seasonal Planning

Splitting Back-to-School Expenses: The Breakdown Nobody Publishes

Splitting back-to-school expenses comes down to sorting them once: what’s shared 50/50, what’s split by income, and what each home simply owns. Here’s the real dollar breakdown.

September 1, 2026·6 min read
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Product Updates

What’s New in coparent Messages: Locked Records, Linked Threads, and Send Later

Ten updates to coparent messages: sent messages are permanent, search looks inside message bodies, conversations attach to the expense they’re about, and quiet hours stop the 11pm buzz without delaying anything.

August 19, 2026·7 min read
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Transitions

The Night-Before Custody Handoff Checklist That Ends the 7am Scramble

Most custody handoffs don’t fail in the morning — they fail the night before, when no one checked what tomorrow needs. Here’s a night-before custody handoff checklist that ends the 7am scramble.

August 11, 2026·7 min read
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Planning

The Coparenting Documents Checklist Both Parents Can Find in 60 Seconds

A coparenting important documents checklist sorted by the moment you need each file — the ER desk, the airport, the first day of school — so either parent can pull it up fast.

August 7, 2026·6 min read
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Communication

Consistent House Rules Across Two Homes: What to Match, What to Let Go

Two homes will never run identically, and chasing that is how coparents burn out. Here’s how to sort your rules into what to match closely, what to align loosely, and what to let go entirely.

August 4, 2026·8 min read
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Financial Planning

Your Coparenting Expense Breakdown by Category: What the Numbers Tell You

Once you’ve tracked shared costs for six months, your coparenting expense breakdown by category becomes the most useful document you own — and most parents never open it. Here’s how to read it.

July 31, 2026·6 min read
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Custody Schedules

Building a Custom Two-Week Custody Schedule When No Preset Fits

Shift work, travel weeks, and standing appointments can make every named schedule feel almost right. Here’s how to build a custom two-week custody schedule around your actual constraints.

July 28, 2026·7 min read
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Product Updates

What’s New in coparent: Attachments, Reactions, and Search in Messages

A month of updates to coparent messages: attach photos and files, save them to your Documents vault, react without adding noise, and search any conversation.

July 28, 2026·6 min read
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Shared Expenses

Recurring Shared Expenses in Coparenting: The Costs You Should Never Log Twice

About half of a coparenting budget repeats every month at the same amount. Setting those recurring shared expenses up once is what keeps expense tracking alive past month three.

July 24, 2026·6 min read
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Seasonal Planning

The Coparenting Vacation Custody Block: Plan a Trip Without 12 Swap Requests

A ten-day trip shouldn’t take ten negotiations. Here’s how a coparenting vacation custody block turns a whole date range into one decision — and one approval.

July 21, 2026·7 min read
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Shared Expenses

Splitting Coparenting Vacation Expenses: What’s Shared, What’s Not

The coparenting vacation expenses split is simpler than it looks: the trip is the traveling parent’s cost, and only what outlasts the trip is shared. Here’s the one test that sorts it.

June 12, 2026·6 min read
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Communication

The Information Handoff: What to Share Between Homes Each Week

Every custody transition moves more than a backpack. A steady coparenting information handoff is what keeps both homes working from the same picture of the same kid.

June 9, 2026·6 min read
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Shared Expenses

Splitting Summer Camp Costs: How Coparents Share the Bill

Splitting summer camp costs as coparents comes down to two moves: agree on the camps together, then apply your usual split to the full bill — early enough to beat the deadline.

June 5, 2026·7 min read
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Seasonal Planning

The Coparenting Summer Schedule: A Break Both Homes Look Forward To

School’s out and the weekly rhythm disappears. Here are the coparenting summer schedule patterns that work, and how to lock yours in before May ends.

June 2, 2026·6 min read
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Shared Expenses

Receipt Tracking for Coparents: A System That Doesn't Take Over Your Life

Most coparents either photograph every receipt or keep none at all. Here's a middle path for receipt tracking coparents can actually maintain past month two.

May 29, 2026·6 min read
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Handling Changes

The Coparenting Swap Request Template: Anatomy of an Ask That Lands

A good coparenting swap request template is just four parts in one short message — the ask, the context, the offer, and the fallback. Here's how to write one that lands a clean yes.

May 26, 2026·7 min read
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Shared Expenses

The Coparenting Big-Purchase Rule: Discuss Before You Spend

The coparenting big-purchase rule is one small agreement — a dollar threshold above which you talk before you spend. Here's how to set it, what number to pick, and how it plays out in real life.

May 22, 2026·7 min read
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Handling Changes

Handling a Last-Minute Custody Schedule Change Without Drama

A last-minute custody schedule change is information, not an emergency. Here's how to ask, how much notice is fair, and when to offer a swap vs. ask a favor.

May 19, 2026·7 min read
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Shared Expenses

Setting Up Your First Shared Expense Tracker as Coparents

How to set up a shared expense tracker coparents will both actually use — three tool options compared honestly, four habits that make any of them stick.

May 15, 2026·8 min read
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Calendar

What to Put in a Coparenting Calendar (Beyond Custody Days)

Custody days are table stakes. Sorting out what to put in a coparenting calendar beyond them is what turns a schedule into something both homes can rely on.

May 12, 2026·7 min read
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Shared Expenses

50/50 vs. Proportional: How to Split Child Expenses Fairly

Equal isn't always fair. Here's how to choose between 50/50 vs. proportional for child expenses — with two worked examples and a rule that holds up.

May 8, 2026·6 min read
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Transitions

How to Make Pick-Ups and Drop-Offs Feel Routine

A calm coparenting pickup drop off routine isn't about getting handoffs perfect — it's about making them predictable. Here are the patterns that hold up.

May 5, 2026·6 min read
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Shared Expenses

What Expenses Do Coparents Split? 7 Categories Most Forget to Define Upfront

What expenses do coparents split when the costs are small or don't fit a clean category? Seven commonly forgotten ones — and how to name them before they quietly build resentment.

May 1, 2026·6 min read
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Getting Started

Your First 30 Days Coparenting: A Logistics Checklist

A clear, week-by-week look at what to set up in your first month of coparenting — and what to leave for later. Predictable beats perfect.

April 28, 2026·6 min read
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Product Updates

coparent for iPhone and iPad Is Now on the App Store

coparent is now live in the App Store for iPhone and iPad. Native push notifications, smoother flow, and Face ID sign-in, built for the 30-second moments.

April 24, 2026·5 min read
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Custody Schedules

How to Build a Co-Parenting Custody Schedule That Actually Works

Figuring out a co-parenting custody schedule is one of the first big decisions you'll make after separating. This guide walks through the most common patterns and how to choose the right one.

April 14, 2026·6 min read
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Shared Expenses

How to Split Co-Parenting Shared Expenses Without the Awkwardness

Money conversations are hard enough in any relationship. Here's how to set up a fair, transparent system for splitting co-parenting costs that keeps things civil and puts your kids first.

April 14, 2026·6 min read
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